{"id":954,"date":"2012-06-19T20:42:07","date_gmt":"2012-06-19T19:42:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/expatriatus\/?p=954"},"modified":"2012-06-19T20:43:19","modified_gmt":"2012-06-19T19:43:19","slug":"cross-cultural-transitions-the-experiences-of-third-culture-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/expatriatus\/2012\/06\/19\/cross-cultural-transitions-the-experiences-of-third-culture-kids\/","title":{"rendered":"Cross-cultural transitions: The experiences of Third Culture Kids"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>The origins of the term Third Culture Kid (TCK) can be traced back to the 1950s, when American sociologist and anthropologist Ruth Hill Useem used it to refer \u201cto the children who accompany their parents into another society\u201d. More recently however, the term is associated with another American sociologist David C. Pollock, who used the term to describe a person who has spent a significant part of his or her developmental years outside the parents’ culture, growing up in a highly mobile and cross-culturally diverse environment.<\/p>\n

In collaboration with Ruth Van Reken, Pollock\u2019s book \u2018Third Culture Kids: Growing up among Worlds\u2019 (2009) draws on the experiences of the TCK individuals, showing that although growing up in a culturally diverse world is certainly enriching, it also implies some real challenges along the way. The authors note that challenges are not necessarily liabilities, in the sense that challenges can have debilitating as well as stimulating effects on reaching one\u2019s goals, depending on how these challenges are managed.<\/p>\n

Naturally to TCKs\u2019 mobile lifestyle, one of the book chapters discusses transition as a significant factor, defining the main challenges of the highly mobile lifestyle within cross-cultural settings as \u201cfinding a sense of personal and cultural identity and dealing with unresolved grief\u201d (p. 64).<\/p>\n

Although, the book\u2019s main focus is on the perspective of TCKs, I believe that the discussed topic of transition is very relevant also for the more ordinary international assignee population, because every kind of mobility can be classified as transition. Overall, it is quite challenging to objectively define what a transition is, as this is a very individual experience, hence transition should be seen as any occasion that is perceived by a person as a change. The authors argue that physical moves from one place to another may undergo the following 5 steps: involvement, leaving, transition, entering and reinvolvement.<\/p>\n

Partly reflecting Oberg\u2019s (1960) stages of cross-cultural adjustment that were reviewed in one of my last year\u2019s blog posts, Pollock and Van Reken\u2019s conceptualization sheds light on the process of transition, identifying the up\u2019s and down\u2019s of the experience.<\/p>\n

Transition begins with the involvement stage<\/em>, which precedes any location changes and constitutes the \u2018normal\u2019 part of life, when an individual is settled in some place, integrated and involved in life of the local community.<\/p>\n

The leaving stage<\/em> starts when one learns that he or she will be leaving and hence begins one\u2019s mental and physical preparations for the transition. During this stage people start loosening their emotional ties and detaching from their relationships and responsibilities. To take quite a common example, we may think of a situation when changing a job: The moment the decision to leave the organization is made, the performance may change, and the person becomes less involved, less caring and in a sense \u2018mentally checks-out\u2019 of the organization before the actual day of separation. Apart from these detachment factors, the authors propose that during this stage there are different forms of denial that are meant to make the leaving experience as painless as possible. More specifically, people tend to deny feelings of sadness or grief, either by trying to reappraise the value of what will be left behind, or by focusing only on what is anticipated; they deny feelings of rejection, which may occur when the future plans of colleagues and friends do not include the person-to-leave anymore; they deny any \u2018unfinished business\u2019, meaning that these individuals are less likely to reconcile conflicts, assuming that \u2018distance\u2019 will heal it; and finally they deny any expectations, as the fear of unfulfilled hopes or the acceptance of too low expectations make the preparation stage even harder. However, the authors note that there is also something positive within this period, as the community gives special attention and recognition to the leaving person.<\/p>\n

Next is the transition stage<\/em> itself, which can be described quite simply as chaotic. To name a few, there are multiple changes in schedules, people and expectations, the old roles and relationships are gone but new ones are not yet structured \u2013 in other words, people are placed out of their comfort zone. The authors argue that this sense of chaos makes people more self-centered than normal, problems get exaggerated, and coping strategies alter. The routines of the old places become stressing novelties of the new. The authors suggest that such drastic changes to everyday habits and learnt practices may also negatively affect one\u2019s self-esteem. Specifically, when such \u2018common\u2019 tasks as, for example, paying the bills or paying a visit to a doctor become difficult in a new location a person may find this detrimental for her sense of self-efficacy and self-confidence. On the other hand, from the host community\u2019s point of view, no matter how welcoming they may be a newcomer is still exactly that person who by definition does not yet fit in. The knowledge and experiences of a newcomer are not yet understood and shared by the local community, nor are the newcomer\u2019s specific roles and status. As a result, being new in a country may lead to feelings of alienation, which may trigger anger, unwillingness to try to make friends, and thus withdrawal from the new community, which in the end turns into a vicious circle.<\/p>\n

All in all, however, at some point life starts to return to normal. The entering stage<\/em> starts. During this stage the feeling of total chaos of one\u2019s life begins to diminish. People begin to accept where they are and start acting towards settling down and integrating into the local community and lifestyle. This period is still full of ambivalence, which creates a need for mentoring by someone who knows more and can teach \u2018the everyday life\u2019 to the newcomer. Thus, little by little one becomes accustomed to the host surrounding, works out necessary roles and routines, gets to know the new location, and eventually feels capable and efficient again.<\/p>\n

Finally, the reinvolvement stage<\/em> resurfaces. The authors note that this stage is widely recognized and possible in any type of transition, be it a cross-cultural move or something else, but that it simply requires time and genuine willingness to adapt. The reinvolvement stage involves the acceptance of the new place, new roles and the new community; it induces feelings of belonging, intimacy and security.<\/p>\n

Summing up, the book \u2018Third Culture Kids: Growing up among Worlds\u2019 among other topics gives a good illustration of the transition process, highlighting its challenges and implying that these challenges and their overcoming is a normal part of it. It is also an important reminder for expatriates and international assignment program managers alike to consciously manage these challenges and develop strategies to attain the positive outcomes for both individuals and their organizations.<\/p>\n

Further reading:<\/p>\n

Pollock, D. C., & Van Reken, R. E. (2009). Third culture kids: growing up among worlds.\u00a0<\/em>Rev. Ed.. London: Nicholas Brealey.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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