{"id":3438,"date":"2020-07-16T10:21:07","date_gmt":"2020-07-16T09:21:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/mba\/?p=3438"},"modified":"2020-07-17T09:01:21","modified_gmt":"2020-07-17T08:01:21","slug":"lessons-learnt-in-quarantine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/mba\/lessons-learnt-in-quarantine\/","title":{"rendered":"Lessons Learnt in Quarantine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><b>Over the past few months, a group of IESE MBA Class of 2021 students led a research study named \u201cProject COVID Mirror\u201d that sought to understand the impacts of COVID on the IESE Class of 2021, as well as their reflections around how they coped with the quarantine, what they learned and what they hope for the future. The research team consists of <\/b><a style=\"font-weight: bold\" href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/coraggio\/\">Chris Coraggio<\/a><b>, <\/b><a style=\"font-weight: bold\" href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/antonio-niemeyer\/\">Antonio Niemeyer<\/a><b>, <\/b><a style=\"font-weight: bold\" href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/marilyn-heymann-a2220013\/\">Marilyn Heymann<\/a><b> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/cong-silvia-wu-b00489ba\/\">Silvia\u00a0Wu<\/a>. They had 133 survey respondents, and \u00a0conducted follow-up interviews with 32 of those respondents between April 15-28th (in the middle of the quarantine). This blog post is a summary of one of the articles in this series, co-authored by Chris Coraggio &amp; Silvia Wu.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n<p>The day that Spain announced \u2018Phase 0\u2019 of the lockdown, we IESE MBA students were jumping up and down, as we finally had freedom to go *outside*! For us, the post-quarantine period has injected happiness and a deep appreciation for the everyday little things. Even with the quarantine behind us (crossing fingers!), we learned incredibly valuable lessons, which were sprinkled in the surveys and interviews. One memorable reflection was, \u201cSomething that I am learning a lot and surprises me is the amount of time and money I was expending on things that I do not value\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>We hope the lessons learned like this one by the IESE MBA Class of \u201821 are useful ones, and that it inspires reflection in our readers.\u00a0 Many thanks to our colleagues for sharing your candid reflections!<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_3454\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3454\" class=\"wp-image-3454\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/mba\/files\/2020\/07\/Covid-Class-300x168.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/mba\/files\/2020\/07\/Covid-Class-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/mba\/files\/2020\/07\/Covid-Class.jpg 750w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-3454\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Looking back to a Class of 2021 photo taken in September 2019 &#8211; can&#8217;t wait to see everyone on campus soon!<\/p><\/div>\n<p><strong>Lesson 1: Dealing with your FOMO!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>FOMO (fear of miss out) is just a fact of MBA life, particularly in the first year.\u00a0 FOMO in the MBA stems from a bunch of places all in one \u2013 the fact that the MBA experience is a short, one-time experience; our nature of comparing ourselves against our colleagues; and our insecurity of whether we\u2019re on the right path \u2013 in other words \u2013 \u201cAm I missing out on something that I might want to do?\u201d\u00a0 It\u2019s perfectly natural at a time when we are still asking ourselves what career and life we want for the rest of our lives.\u00a0 No pressure!<\/p>\n<p>Suddenly and instantaneously, the lockdown put us in a vacuum, quieting the MBA noise and rush of the buzzing campus life.\u00a0 In our homes, we had no choice of where to go and few options for what to do \u2013 but we knew our colleagues were in the same boat. In some ways, that was a good thing \u2013 we lost the fear of what we might be missing.\u00a0 In our survey, many of our classmates mentioned that not having FOMO was a real positive part of the quarantine: \u201cI have reduced social anxiety [due to] near-total absence of FOMO.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In the vacuum of full-lockdown, we also had more brain space to think about one of life\u2019s most important questions: \u201cwhat matters to me?\u201d.\u00a0 One interviewee said, \u201cThis period at least helped me think about what I am doing, what are my plans, what do I want from this experience, from my life in general.\u201d\u00a0 Another classmate said:\u00a0 \u201cPositively it&#8217;s slowed things down so much &#8211; journaling, considering so many different things &#8211; what I eat, how I drink, who I spend my time with, resetting.\u201d Let\u2019s break that down further. We think the sources of FOMO are (1) comparing ourselves to our peers and (2) being uncertain about whether we are making the right choices with their time.<\/p>\n<p>If that\u2019s the case, a few techniques to work against this would be:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Take more consistent time to individually reflect<\/strong>.\u00a0 Go somewhere quiet alone. Ask yourself: are you clear about what you want? Are you on the right path?<\/li>\n<li><strong>Speak to people<\/strong>. Know what you want based not on your own theoretical understanding of something, but on other people\u2019s real experiences before you and your own experience (cue the next bullet).<\/li>\n<li>Choose experiences that will <strong>help you figure out what you want<\/strong> if you\u2019re not sure.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Choose your priorities<\/strong> consciously \u2013 literally as a list.\u00a0 What is really most important to you?\u00a0 If you find these changing rapidly, think about why that\u2019s the case.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Keep telling yourself your priorities<\/strong>, so you don\u2019t feel bad about missing out.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This part of your MBA experience is a huge source of growth \u2013 and will be invaluable when we are searching for full-time jobs that will inevitably force us to make hard choices about our future life \u2013 Is it the right company? Right role? Right career path? Right location? Is this the life I really want now and in the future?\u00a0 It\u2019s not easy, but you have to know what you want.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lesson 2: Taking Care of our Mental Health<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mental health is a rampant issue in the business world &#8211; the European Mental Health Agenda of the European Union (EU) estimates that 20% of the adult working population has some type of mental health problem at any given time. They also say, \u201cIn the United Kingdom, 80 million days are lost every year due to mental illnesses, costing employers \u00a31-2 billion each year.\u201d\u00a0 Unfortunately, mental health is an issue we often don\u2019t acknowledge, including in the MBA. Intense workloads, job searching, interview preparation and even FOMO, like we mentioned earlier, cause or exacerbate issues.<\/p>\n<p>On top of the \u201cMBA normal\u201d, the pandemic and ensuing lockdown barrelled into our experience \u2013 so it isn\u2019t surprising to see that 53% of survey respondents reported a decline in mental health and 79% a decline in happiness, according to our COVID survey.\u00a0 Without much of a choice, we pushed ourselves to adapt to our new normal: \u201c<em>it&#8217;s not been easy.\u00a0 But I did adjust to it fast..I learned to spend time with myself and I learned how to enjoy it<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For many of us, we adapted as much as we could, but still felt our mental states slipping. There were two themes around mental health here &#8211; first, what were ways we could \u201c<strong>be stronger<\/strong>\u201d and help ourselves, and second &#8211; <strong>should we seek help<\/strong>?<\/p>\n<p>Most people resorted to self-help, naming exercise as one of their main strategies:\u00a0 \u201cExercise has been the best thing for my mental health and my mood dramatically improves after\u201d, with a good number also practicing meditation. Others took my friend Deeksha\u2019s advice:\u00a0 \u201cFind what gives you joy, and do that.\u201d One interviewee said the same thing; \u201cenjoy the little things, reading books, sitting in the sun room.\u00a0 Cherish the simple things.<em>\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_3453\" style=\"width: 410px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3453\" class=\"wp-image-3453\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/mba\/files\/2020\/07\/Insanity-Workout-Hour-with-IESE-Buddies-300x194.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"258\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/mba\/files\/2020\/07\/Insanity-Workout-Hour-with-IESE-Buddies-300x194.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/mba\/files\/2020\/07\/Insanity-Workout-Hour-with-IESE-Buddies-768x496.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/mba\/files\/2020\/07\/Insanity-Workout-Hour-with-IESE-Buddies.jpg 901w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-3453\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Insanity Workout Hour with IESE Buddies<\/p><\/div>\n<p>For the majority of our class though, mental health in general was a new topic.\u00a0 Fortunately, a group from both class years stepped forward to organize the first <em><strong>Mental Health Awareness Day<\/strong><\/em><strong>.<\/strong>\u00a0 Deeksha and Charlie shared their experience: \u201cWe saw a gap in discussion around mental health\u201d and wanted to \u201cchange the mindsets and reduce stigma around mental health, clearly signpost existing resources around mental health (such as mobile apps and therapy sessions) and put on engaging events for students.\u201d At the event, few participants admitted they had ever seen a therapist or counselor, and mostly relied on themselves or close confidants for advice.\u00a0 The event gave students a chance to share \u201chow they are feeling in this current time\u201d &#8211; \u201chaving an open forum to talk really helped.\u201d We are excited to see future Mental Health initiatives!<\/p>\n<p>Bottom line, here were our takeaways:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Many of us appreciated the message that \u201c<strong>it is OK to say &#8216;I\u2019m not OK&#8217;\u2019\u2019<\/strong>, and get help as needed.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Physical health is inextricably linked to mental health<\/strong> &#8211; you cannot have one without the other.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Do what you can personally to keep yourself healthy and happy<\/strong>, and for everything you can\u2019t control &#8211; get professional help.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Find community around you.\u00a0<\/strong> Many actually feel unmotivated to join or be active in a community, but that may be exactly what is needed to keep your spirits up.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Lesson 3: How we prioritize and connect with family<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It wasn\u2019t surprising to see in our COVID survey that 55% of classmates reported improvements in connections to family (35% said no change). The pandemic \u2018triggered&#8217; not only more contact with family, but deeper conversations that might not have happened typically under normal circumstances. Mundane updates turned into discussions on life and death, health and illness, responsibilities and relationships.<\/p>\n<p>We also found more fun and interesting ways to connect with our families.\u00a0 One student shared, \u201cI made a virtual group call with my entire family (about 20 people) for my grandmother&#8217;s birthday. She was turning 90 years old and the entire family got together using zoom. Most of my family lives in Peru, but we all share the same frustration of not being able to visit her on this special occasion.\u201d\u00a0 Another said, \u201cmy family learned to play Jackbox TV games online together\u201d.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_3455\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3455\" class=\"wp-image-3455\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/mba\/files\/2020\/07\/Covid-Family-Zoom-Reunion-of-Chris-Coraggio-300x107.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"179\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/mba\/files\/2020\/07\/Covid-Family-Zoom-Reunion-of-Chris-Coraggio-300x107.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/mba\/files\/2020\/07\/Covid-Family-Zoom-Reunion-of-Chris-Coraggio-768x274.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/mba\/files\/2020\/07\/Covid-Family-Zoom-Reunion-of-Chris-Coraggio-1024x366.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.iese.edu\/mba\/files\/2020\/07\/Covid-Family-Zoom-Reunion-of-Chris-Coraggio.jpg 1431w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-3455\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Family Zoom Reunion of Chris Coraggio, IESE MBA 21<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Another topic is a bit heavy: many of us are or were worried about our elder family members. One student reflected: \u201cit takes me back to the point of people realizing the fragility of life.\u00a0 Life is fragile and finite.\u201d\u00a0 For many of us, with this realization, we deepened our sense of empathy and responsibility, along with paying attention to the wellbeing of others.<\/p>\n<p>As we return to a new normal, it\u2019s likely we will return to a life busier with exploring the city and going to in-person events (sounds novel, right?).\u00a0 Our conversations will center less around safety and return to the normal updates. But we hope these calls remain different &#8211; on video, more frequent, and deeper conversations about topics that matter.\u00a0\u00a0After all \u2013 \u201cThe pandemic really made us realize that we can\u2019t take for granted that we know what the future will look like.\u00a0 We have to value the people in our lives as if anything can happen to us or them at anytime\u201d.\u00a0 Our families are the most important ingredient to a joyful life, so let\u2019s treat them that way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lesson 4: The Value of our Network<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>With COVID like a dark cloud over the economy, the internship and full-time job markets seem bleak for many industries.\u00a0 Many of our colleagues had their internship offers rescinded or projects delayed for months.\u00a0\u00a0 What became crystal clear was that our network, individually and collectively, was the only way to weather the COVID storm.\u00a0 It served as a web of knowledge, experience, connections and support that we relied on (and contributing to) to not only land our jobs, but thrive in them and prepare for an uncertain future.<\/p>\n<p>Thankfully, the IESE alumni community and other partners showed up for us.\u00a0 Many alumni shared their experiences from the last financial crisis, offered individual coaching and even offered us internship opportunities to support us.\u00a0 Many students also shared that they found internship opportunities through their colleagues and own networks, and new opportunities that colleagues and the MBA Career Services found, like MBAs Fight COVID, were opportunities for us to gain experience while making a difference.<\/p>\n<p>Networking was always something many were uncomfortable with, the twist was now having to do everything online &#8211; including the networking conversations themselves.\u00a0 In a way, that was good because it leveled the playing field in terms of location. Some people had more time to chat than before because of quarantine.\u00a0 On the other hand, many of us MBAs needed to get over our discomfort with online networking with someone we haven\u2019t met before. And further, it doesn\u2019t make it easier that we endured 8-10 hours of Zoom calls every day &#8211; avoiding another call was easy to forgive.<\/p>\n<p>As the campus and Barcelona continue to open up, our opportunities for in-person networking will increase.\u00a0 <strong>It will be important to remember that whether in quarantine or not, our network is still the most important element of our success long-term and needs to be cultivated intentionally over time, even online.<\/strong> More Zoom meetings!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Conclusion<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>With our lives slowly adjusting to (a new) normal in Spain, we realize the pandemic is still far from over worldwide, the economic outlook is hazy and we expect long-lasting changes to how society functions. The struggle continues, but now we don\u2019t take for granted little things, like sitting down inside a restaurant, walking outside or dancing in a club.<\/p>\n<p>Winston Churchill once said, \u201cNever let a good crisis go to waste.\u201d\u00a0 We can confidently say our classmates and us even in writing this article have learned a lot being in quarantine.\u00a0<strong> Tackle your FOMO, attend to your mental health, find the best way to stay connected with family, and keep building your network, even if it\u2019s all online.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is our chance to build a better life for ourselves and for society.\u00a0 Let\u2019s get to work!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>We hope you found this article insightful, you can find the full length version <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/lessons-learned-from-quarantine-cong-silvia-wu\/?trackingId=atGZnnt1Tbm%2FBwO8A%2B14Fg%3D%3D\">here.<\/a> For more information on this study or requests for interviews, please contact Chris Coraggio (christopher.coraggio@iese.net). 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